Question by  ousideinsider (32)

How can I stop feeling excluded from my roommates?

They always hang out together, but I feel like I'm intruding.


Answer by  mangosteen (272)

I dont think you should push too hard. a friendship is not something you can force. I think you should be patient but calm and relaxed with them. In time, everyone should grow a little closer, and I think you won't feel like an outsider.


Answer by  MizM (27)

Why do you feel like you are intruding? Are you shy? Do they talk about subjects you aren't interested in? Maybe they're already friends, and you are the newcomer? Try talking to them individually. Maybe once they get to know you, they will invite you to join them.


Answer by  Anonymous

i think that u should ask them y they always hang out and never invite u. but dont try and get involvd cause a friendship is something that comes naturally i think in time that u will all grow closer and become good friends. well good luck


Answer by  HawaiianGirl (6906)

First figure out why you feel this way. Maybe there's no reason for you to feel this way. You can speak to your roomates about how you feel.


Answer by  Anita27 (656)

Try inviting your roommates to do something so you do not feel like you are asking if you can join them. Suggest a walk around the block or a movie.

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