I don't know about you, but I'm gonna put on some makeup, wade through my precious swarm of shelter-rescued kitty-cats and this time I'm gonna find a real man (just like I do every time my phone psychic tells me). Wish me luck!
I think you should find a hobby that you can always turn to whenever you don't have other plans. Maybe painting, sculpting clay; repairing a car, knitting, whatever. I never understand when people say they have nothing to do... i never have time to do all that i want!