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Question by  sauvblanc (96)

Should I tell my friend why I'm not returning her calls anymore?

She's mean to me, she talks about my sister, and she's really negative.

 
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Answer by  kaetien (47)

Take my advice - write her an e-mail about it. Be frank, but not nasty. It gives you a chance to gather your thoughts and make yourself heard. You can always tell her that you need some space in your friendship and maybe you can get together again in a few months.

 
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Answer by  Anonymous

Yes you should confront her and tell her that her way is hutful and makes you feel bad and uncomfortable. Perhaps she doesn't realize that ,so you will do her good by telling her if she ever wants to make another friend...

 
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Answer by  Wackonorm (164)

If she confronts you then I would tell her how you feel about her negative comments. However, some people are negative to make themselves feel more important and can be toxic for your well being. It's probably best to discontinue the friendship.

 
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Answer by  chea (23)

No, I don't think you should tell your friend why you aren't returning her calls. Telling her the truth would do her no good since they are all negative. You should just stop being her friend if you really think she is mean and find another friend.

 
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