How do you deal with a boyfriend who is friends with his ex?

Answer by  Dinagirl (182)

Relax. You have to think: I'm good. He likes me. I trust him. I'm happy. Don't need to worry... But if you see that she is flirting him talk to her politely, if she doesn't cooperate you can make some crazy thing and just grab her hair.

Answer by  liblue (683)

When talking with an ex girl or boyfriend, consider if there are unresolved issues. This is especially important if another person is involved. This will help the relationship with another person go better. It may seem like more is involved if alot of time is spent enjoying an ex partner and this could threaten a present relationship.

Answer by  str8upcutie83 (471)

Tell him that you feel very uncomfortable that he is still friends with his ex and give him the reasons why. I he is serious about you he will understand.

Answer by  kitkat123 (177)

You have several choices here: 1. ) Dump him. If he's with his ex then he's not with you and that tells you where his interest really is. 2. ) Talk to him. Explain that this bothers you and see how he reacts. He'll make his choice known to you.

Answer by  Anonymous

well tbh he has a right to still be friends with her. if he is friends with her this is good because it proves he can be in a good place and is responsible and mature when it comes to relationships. if not dump him just ask him first :-)

Answer by  tbird (732)

Ask him to take a step back from his friendship. If he doesn't, you need to ask him why his friendship is more important than your feelings.

Answer by  stphaniecostello (159)

There are only two ways. Be mature about it and trust him; or drive him away with jealously and whining.